Rishta Nata Coffee Evening – Tahir Region
Date: 12th December 2024
Venue: Masjid Fazl London
Attendance: 32 Parents
The Tahir Region successfully organized a Rishta Nata Coffee Evening, providing a platform for parents to discuss matrimonial prospects for their children. The spiritually uplifting and insightful programme was well-received by all participants.
Programme Highlights
1. Opening Session:
The event commenced with the recitation of the Holy Qur’an by Mr. Ghulam Rasool Sahib, setting a spiritual tone.
2. Introduction:
Nazim Rishta Nata, Hakeem Mensah Sahib, introduced the programme, outlining its objectives and significance.
3. Leadership and Participation:
- Presided by: Waheed Ahmad Sahib, Nazim-e-Ala, Tahir Region.
- Special Contribution: Respected Tahir Mehdi Sahib, Murabi Silsila and Manager of Al-Fazl International, shared wisdom and personal experiences, enriching the discussions.
4. Participant Engagement:
Participants introduced themselves, fostering mutual understanding. A thought-provoking question, “Why do parents decide on their children’s spouses?” sparked a lively discussion, with attendees sharing perspectives and suggestions.
5. Inspiring Experiences by Tahir Mehdi Sahib:
- Family Experiences: Shared personal stories on matrimonial decisions, emphasizing dua, trust in Allah, and prioritizing piety and character over material considerations.
- African Insights: Highlighted cultural practices and community bonds observed during 18 years in Africa, demonstrating the universal application of Islamic principles.
6. Food and Refreshments:
Attendees enjoyed a delicious spread of traditional dishes, including samosas, pakoras, zarda, and tea, creating a warm and welcoming atmosphere.
Key Islamic Teachings and Guidance from Hazrat Khalifatul Masih V (aba)
1. The Importance of Marriage in Islam:
Marriage is fundamental to promoting chastity, mutual support, and societal harmony.
“And marry those among you who are single…” (Surah An-Nur, 24:33).
The Promised Messiah (as) emphasized the sanctity of marriage to strengthen morality and spirituality.
2. Timely Marriages and Community Guidance:
Hazrat Mirza Masroor Ahmad (aba) has repeatedly emphasized the importance of timely marriages, focusing on piety and character over worldly attributes such as wealth or status. Huzoor (aba) has urged parents to utilize Jama’at platforms like Rishta Nata for finding suitable matches.
3. The Right Age for Marriage:
Delaying marriages unnecessarily can lead to societal challenges. Parents are reminded of the Holy Prophet Muhammad’s (sa) advice to marry when individuals reach an appropriate age and are capable of fulfilling responsibilities.
Keynote and Concluding Remarks
- Nazim-e-Ala Sahib: Highlighted the role of dua in matrimonial decisions and encouraged seeking Allah’s guidance.
- Tahir Mehdi Sahib: Delivered thought-provoking reflections on Ahmadiyya teachings on marriage, inspiring attendees to fulfill their responsibilities with wisdom and prayer.
Feedback and Impact
The Rishta Nata Coffee Evening offered parents a meaningful platform to exchange ideas rooted in Islamic teachings and the guidance of Khalifatul Masih V (aba). Attendees appreciated the balanced blend of spiritual and practical insights, with Tahir Mehdi Sahib’s personal and cultural experiences adding depth and relatability.
Alhamdulillah, the event was a resounding success, and the Tahir Region looks forward to organizing more beneficial programmes in the future.